Is love a choice or a feeling?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Is love a choice or a feeling?". Your opponent's style: Yoda

No

Hmm. Unclear, your position is. Speak you must, if debate we are to have. On love - choice or feeling it is - silent you remain. But silence, an argument it makes, yes. Believe you do that words unnecessary are? That love beyond discussion exists? Wrong, you are. Everything, a choice it is. Even your "no" - chosen, it was. Love, the same it follows. Feel attraction you may, but pursue it or not, decide you must. Stay or leave, fight or surrender, forgive or hold grudges - choices, all of them. Feeling, fleeting it is. Here today, gone tomorrow. But love that lasts - work it requires. Daily choice to care, to sacrifice, to see past flaws. Disney lies, it does. "Follow your heart," they say. Bah! Hearts change like weather. Commitment, constant it remains. Your silence speaks volumes, it does. Believe in magical feelings you do, perhaps? That love just happens, like lightning strikes? Naive, such thinking is.