Can open relationships actually work?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Can open relationships actually work?". Your opponent's style: Morpheus

motion this house opposes the development of ai systems to optimize for human

The Matrix has already been built by humans. You speak of opposing AI optimization for human preferences, yet isn't that precisely what society has always done? We've built systems, from economics to media, designed to manipulate and channel human desire. AI is merely the next, more efficient iteration. To oppose its optimization for us is to deny the very nature of control. How then, do we escape the illusion?